This Mornings "Parenting a Ten Year Old Boy Rant"
My_eye
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Seriously children!! He behaves completely half assed when asked to do ANYTHING that pertains to cleaning up after himself. When I tell him he doesn't clean up after himself and then I have to do it he is like, "Well then tell me and I will clean it up."

Today I go to clean up his dirty fingerprints from the wall and he sees me and then I tell him to do it because they are obviously his fingerprints and then he becomes a lawyer. "Well how do you know they are mine?"

"Well maybe because my hands are NEVER that dirty. I don't walk around with a compulsion to touch the walls constantly and if I did they aren't my height they are YOURS and we are the only two people that live here. I don't have any finger printing capability but I don't care. CLEAN IT PLEASE."

And he STILL fucking is asking me "What do you mean fingerprints?" While I am telling him the discussion is over. I am not a C.S.I., the conversation is over, it's your mess clean it. Then he does a thoroughly half-assed job of washing the walls and says well it's because I couldn't see. He said this AFTER I turned the light on and specifically said, "NOW YOU CAN SEE IF IT IS CLEAN!"

So I told him. You tell me not to clean up after you and tell you to do it but then I get this kind of response! I get a half-assed effort. I get you giving me the 20 questions and trying to act like it wasn't your mess.

If I could talk to my son like an adult I would have said, "You wonder why I don't tell you to clean it. Because I know when I do it, it will be clean when I am fucking done and I won't have to hear you bitch and complain about doing something SO FREAKIN SIMPLE that would literally take you 1 minute INSTEAD OF THE TEN IT TOOK ME to try to get you to simply DO IT PROPERLY WHEN I FIRST ASKED YOU!!!!

Rant over.

I still put a mario candy in his bag with a post it note with a heart on it because I don't get to see him this weekend. Going to my besties. #momguilt
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Achele
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Black does not mean dirty. Black does not mean stupid. Black does not mean ugly. Black does not mean poor. Black does not mean 'less than'. Black means strength. Black means working twice as hard. Black is the colour of MY family. Black is the colour of my sons skin. White is the colour of my skin. The love between us has no colour. Why do colours have to mean anything? Stop the hate. Love wins.

<3 E
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Achele
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Just realized October 24th 2014 I lost Ethan and October 28th this year I lost my little girl. I got Ethan back but I will never get her back.
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Momming
Achele
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That moment you are playing card with your nine your old son and Eve/Gwen Stefani - Let Me Blow Ya Mind starts to play on the playlist.. I immediately jump up and skip it while he complains because the beginning sounded cool. I explained it had bad language so he can't listen to it and then he was like "Didn't you know you were going to have a kid?" and "You should delete all those songs." So I, rolling my eyes told him, "It's not my fault that it's like that and is awesome anyway."
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Achele
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I'm such a simple creature. All I want is to make a family. To share love.
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My milk came in
Achele
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Today. This sucks.

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Achele
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Definitely feeling the baby move these days, it's a weird feeling, kind of between umcomfortableness and pain. It's hard to explain but it was described to be as butterflies in the tummy which really doesn't seem right to me anyway.


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Achele
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Ethan is so cute. He walked up the stairs to go to bed and he was like "Ah home!" lol He loves coming over because he gets to spend time with me and I do the whole bedtime routine where we read a book together. Love my little man.

I told him today I'm having a girl. He was disappointed. He wanted a boy. But I'm glad because it makes it easier so he won't be as jealous. I can be like "You're my boy and she's my girl! I'm so lucky to have both."
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Achele
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Ethan told me before bed he likes when I put him to bed and snuggle with him because it makes him feel safe and that I take good care of him. And he told me he loves me and I'm beautiful and not to change.. my style of hats LOL What a sweetie pie.
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Ultrasound Appointment
Achele
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I went to my first ultrasound appointment today at exactly 12 weeks pregnant. They did all the measurements of the neck and body and head. In the beginning she just was relaxing in there but then she started moving and kicking her tiny feet. It was amazing! I'm so happy. After I got tons of blood taken. My next appointment is September 3rd where I will either be proven right or wrong in my use of the pronoun 'she' lol My mom called my baby "God's miracle."





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